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[Pindi-Islamabad:93829] Urdu Kahani: Asli Chor kon?


میں نے لندن میں بادنگٹن کے علاقے میں رہائش رکھی ہوئی تھی۔ آمدورفت کیلئے روزانہ زیر زمین ٹرین استعمال کرتا تھا۔ میں جس اسٹیشن سے سوار ہوتا تھا وہاں پر ایک عمر رسیدہ عورت کے سٹال سے ہو کر گزرنا پڑتا تھا۔ اُسکے سٹال پر ٹھہر کر اُس سے چند باتیں کرنا میرا معمول تھا اور ساتھ ہی میں روزانہ اُس سے ایک چاکلیٹ بھی خرید کر کھایا کرتا تھا جس کی قیمت ۱۸ پنس ہوا کرتی تھی۔ چاکلیٹ کے یہ بار قیمت کی آویزاں تختی کے ساتھ ایک شیلف پر ترتیب سے رکھے ہوا کرتے تھا۔ گاہک قیمت دیکھ کر اپنی پسند کا خود فیصلہ کر کے خرید لیتے تھے۔
حسب معمول ایک دن وہاں سے گُزرتے ہوئے میں اس عورت کے سٹال پر ٹھہرا اور اپنا پسندیدہ چاکلیٹ بار لینے کیلئے ہاتھ بڑھایا تو یہ دیکھ کر حیران رہ گیا کہ آج وہ چاکلیٹ دو مختلف شیلف میں رکھے ہوئے تھے۔ ایک شیلف میں رکھے ہوئے کی قیمت حسبِ معمول ۱۸ پنس ہی تھی مگر دوسرے شیلف میں رکھے ہوئے کی قیمت ۲۰ پنس لکھی ہوئی تھی۔
میں نے حیرت کے ساتھ اُس عورت سے پوچھا؛ کیا یہ چاکلیٹ مختلف اقسام کی ہیں؟ تو اُس نے مختصرا کہا نہیں بالکل وہی ہیں۔ اچھا تو دونوں کے وزن میں اختلاف ہو گا؟ نہیں دونوں کے وزن ایک بھی جیسے ہیں۔ تو پھر یقینایہ دونوں مختلف فیکٹریوں کے بنے ہوئے ہونگے؟ نہیں دونوں ایک ہی فیکٹری کے بنے ہوئے ہیں۔
میری حیرت دیدنی تھی اور میں حقیقت جاننا چاہتا تھ، اسلیئے میں نے اس بار تفصیل سے سوال کر ڈالا؛ تو پھر کیا وجہ ہے کہ ایک شیلف میں رکھے ہوئے چاکلیٹ کی قیمت ۱۸ پنس ہے جبکہ دوسرے شیلف میں رکھے ہوؤں کی قیمت ۲۰ پنس! ایسا کیوں ہے؟
اس بار اُس عورت نے بھی مُجھے پوری صورتحال بتانے کی غرض سے تفصیلی جواب دیتے ہوئے ہوئے کہا کہ آجکل نائجیریا میں جہاں سے کاکاؤ آتا ہے کُچھ مسائل چل رہے ہیں جس سے وجہ سے چاکلیٹ کی قیمتوں میں ناگہانی طور پر اضافہ ہو گیا ہے۔
میں نے یہاں عورت کی بات کاٹتے ہوئے کہا کہ مادام، آپ سے بیس پنس کی چاکلیٹ کون خریدے گا جبکہ وہی اٹھارہ پنس کی بھی موجود ہے؟ عورت نے کہا؛ میں جانتی ہوں ایسا کوئی بھی نہیں کرے گا۔ مگر جیسے ہی پُرانی قیمت والے چاکلیٹ ختم ہوں گے لوگ خود بخود نئی قیمتوں والے خریدنے لگیں گے۔
اپنی فطرت اور ماحول پروردہ خوبیوں کے ساتھ، روانی میں کہیئے یا اپنی عادتوں سے مجبور، میں نے کہا؛ مادام، آپ دونوں چاکلیٹ ایک ہی خانے میں رکھ کر بیس پنس والی نئی قیمت پر کیوں نہیں بیچ لیتیں؟
میری بات سُننا تھی کہ عورت کے تیور بدلے، چہرے پر موت جیسی پیلاہٹ مگر آنکھوں میں خوف اور غصے کی ملی جُلی کیفیت کے ساتھ لرزتی ہوئی آواز میں مُجھ سے بولی؛ کیا تو چور ہے؟
اب آپ خود ہی سوچ کر بتائیے کیا میں چور ہوں؟ یا وہ عورت جاہل اور پاگل تھی؟ اور شاید عقل و سمجھ سے نا بلد، گھاس چرنے والی حیوان
عورت!
اچھا میں مان لیتا ہوں کہ میں چور ہوں تو یہ سب کون ہیں جو غلہ اور اجناس خریدتے ہی اس وجہ سے ہیں کہ کل مہنگی ہونے پر بیچیں گے۔
کس جہنم میں ڈالنے کیلئے پیاز خرید کر رکھے جاتے ہیں جو مہنگے ہونے پر پھر نکال کر بیچتے ہیں۔
اُن لوگوں کیلئے تو میں کوئی ایک حرف بھی نہیں لکھنا چاہتا جن کی چینی گوداموں میں پڑے پڑے ہی مہنگی ہوجاتی ہے۔ نہ ہی مُجھے اُن لوگوں پر کوئی غصہ ہے جو قیمت بڑھاتے وقت تو نہیں دیکھتے کہ پہلی قیمت والا کتنا سٹاک پڑا ہے مگر قیمتیں کم ہونے پر ضرور سوچتے ہیں کہ پہلے مہنگے والا تو ختم کر لیں پھر سستا کریں گے۔
کیا ہمارے تجار نہیں جانتے کہ مخلوق خدا کو غلہ و اجناس کی ضرورت ہو اور وہ خرید کر اس نیت سے اپنے پاس روک رکھیںکہ جب او ر زیادہ گرانی ہو گی تو اسے بیچیں گے یہ احتکار کہلاتا ہے۔ روزِ محشر شفاعت کے طلبگار شافعیِ محشر صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کاغلہ کے احتکار اور ذخیرہ اندوزی پر کیا فرمان اور کیا وعید ہے کو تو نہیں سُننا چاہتے کیونکہ وہ فی الحال اپنی توندوں اور تجوریوں کو جہنم کی آگ سے بھرنے میں جو لگے ہوئے ہیں۔
مُجھے کسی پر غصہ اور کسی سے کوئی ناراضگی نہیں، میں تو اُس جاہل عورت پر ناراض ہوں جس نے محض میرے مشورے پر مُجھے چور کا خطاب دیدیا۔ اچھا ہے جو وہ برطانیہ میں رہتی تھی، ادھر آتی تو حیرت سے دیکھتی اور سوچتی کہ وہ کس کس کو چور کہے! اور اُسے کیا پتہ کہ جسے بھی وہ چور کہنا چاہے گی وہ چور نہیں بلکہ ہمارے سید، پیر، مخدوم، شیخ، حکام اور ہمارے راہنما ہیں۔
جاہل کہیں کی!
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[Pindi-Islamabad:93828] Hadith: Who is stronger

Narrated Abu Huraira (Radi-Allahu 'anhu):


Allah's Apostle (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam) said, "The strong is not the
one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who
controls himself while in anger."

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[Pindi-Islamabad:93827] 6 Tips for Resolving Conflicts

   




Resolving conflicts whether in office, in friends community or at home is a challenge. The situation sometimes get worst when nobody shows the flexibility on his/her stance. The below tips might help when you have been assigned (Or you assign it to yourself) to resolve  the conflict.

1-    Be fair regardless of your relation with different parties. Sometimes your closed one can be wrong. Hence make up your mind to be transparent and fair throughout. Judge people fairly
2-   Empathetic Listening is very important. Listen to all parties carefully. Put yourself in their shoes to understand their stance.
3-   Carefully analyze the statements from each party. List down the pros 
and cons of the stance from each party. Sometimes both parties are right and sometimes both are wrong. In your analysis you need to find the option which gives maximum benefit to everyone.  Article written by Junaid.Tahir
4-   If the conflict is between two persons, consider a solution which neither party-A has proposed, neither B. Propose third solution which suits both persons. Consider Win-Win scenario where everyone gains something at the cost of compromise.
5-   If you want to give advice to a party (which you think is wrong), give it privately. Don't do counseling when both are present. This will offend one party and may strain the relations further. Remember not tocriticise. Article written by Junaid.Tahir
6-   Sometimes youngsters are right and old ones are wrong. If the issue is not too serious, request youngsters to be flexible. It always pay off. Remember that we have learnt so much from our seniors (bosses, team leads, parents and other senior family members). So this is the time to pay back to make them feel proud about their teachings and to develop trust in relations. 

Developing emotional intelligence is another approach to study people and understand them in depth. As per Wikipedia "Emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to identify, assess, and control the emotions of oneself, of others, and of groups" Learn this technique to improve your mental powers. Google it.




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[Pindi-Islamabad:93826] Microsoft Excel: Pivot Table Tricks to Make You a Star


Pivot  Table Tricks ExcelWe, data junkies, love pivot tables. We think pivot tables are solution for everything (except for may be global warming and that broken espresso machine down stairs).

Today, we are going to learn 5 awesome pivot table tricks that will make you a star.

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(If you are not familiar with basic pivot tables, you should check out this excellent pivot tables tutorial)

1. Drill down on your Pivots with Double click

This is by far the simplest and most powerful pivot table trick I have learned. Whenever you want to see the values behind a pivot field just double click on it.

Lets say, the sales of Lawrence in Middle region  is $5,908 and you want to know which items contribute for this total, when you double click on the number $5,908 excel will show a list of all the records that add up to this number, neatly arranged in a new worksheet. Instant drill down.

See this magical trick in action.

Drill  Down Pivot Tables

2. Summarize Pivot Data by "Average" or some other formula

By default excel summarizes pivot data by "sum" or "count" depending on data type. But often you may want to change this to say "average", to answer questions like "what is the average sales per product". To do this, just right click on pivot table values (not on row or column headings) and select "summarize data by" and select "Average" option.

Summarize By Average Pivots

(In excel 2003, you have to do this from "field settings" menu option)

3. Slice & Dice your Pivot Tables with Grace

Re-arranging pivot table layouts is as easy as shuffling a pack of cards. Just drag and drop the fields from row areas to column areas (vice-a-versa) and you have the pivot table rearranged.

Here is a simple screencast explaining the secret

Slice And Dice Pivot Report

4. Show difference from last month (or year) without bending backwards

We all know that you can show monthly summaries using Pivots. But what if your boss wants you to also include "difference from previous month"  as well? Now, dont rush back to source data and add new columns. Here is the right trick to make you a star.

  • Just use field settings to tell excel how you want the data to be summarized.
  • Right click on any pivot table value, select "value field settings"
  • Now go to "Show value as tab" and Change "Normal" to "Difference from"
  • Select "Previous" from Base-item area. Leave Base field as-is.

Now, your pivot is updated to show difference from previous column.

Difference From Last Month Pivot Report

Bonus: There are quite a few value field settings you can mess with. Go play and discover something fun. :)

5. Add new dimensions to your Pivot Reports with Calculated Fields

Let us say you have both "sale" and "profit" values in your source data. Now, your boss wants to know "profit %" in the pivot report (defined as Profit/Sales). You need not add any extra columns in your source data, instead you can define custom calculated fields with ease and use them in pivot reports.

  • To do this, Go to pivot table options ribbon, select "formulas" > "calculated field"
  • Now define a new calculated field by giving it a name and some meaningful formula.
  • Make sure you adjust the cell formatting so that output of calculation can be displayed (for eg. change number to % format)

(In excel 2003, the formula option is available from Pivot menu in toolbar)

See this tip in action:

Calculated Fields Pivot Tables

What is your favorite pivot table trick?


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[Pindi-Islamabad:93825] Daily Qur'an & Hadith 12 Oct 2013 (06 Zhu'al-Hijjah 1434)

English Translation of Al-Quran

[26].Surah Ash-Shuara [The Poets]

Ayat 15. Allah said: "Nay! Go you both with Our Signs. Verily! We shall be with you, listening.

Ayat 16. "And when you both come to Firaun (Pharaoh), say: 'We are the Messengers of the Lord of the Alamin (mankind, jinns and all that exists),

Ayat 17. "So allow the Children of Israel to go with us.' "

[Tafseer] of Ayat 15. Allah said: "By no means! proceed then, both of you, with Our Signs; We are with you, and will listen (to your call). Ayat 16. "So go forth, both of you, to Pharaoh, and say: ´We have been sent by the Lord and Cherisher of the worlds; Ayat 17. "´Send thou with us the Children of Israel."    

English Translation of Hadith  

Hazrat Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported: I said: "O Messenger of Allah [SAWW](PBUH) ! We consider Jihad as the best deed, should we not then go for Jihad?'' The Messenger of Allah [SAWW](PBUH) said, "The best Jihad for you women is Hajj Mabrur (i.e., one accepted by Allah).''

[Al-Bukhari Book 02, Chapter 26, Hadith # 595].

Lesson : This Hadith brings out the following points:

1. Hajj is compulsory once in a lifetime for those who have the means for it.

2. Unnecessary questioning is disliked.

3. Those who believe in Allah and His Prophet [SAWW](PBUH) are required to do what they are ordained and abstain from what they are forbidden.

 

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